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Monday, May 28, 2007

Women Rule

Women Rule!

I give up. I throw my white towel. Surrender is the word! I am starting a journey to understand women.....I shall return so please don't give up on me, as yet!

My latest reading reveals some disturbing information. At the same time, it is information which, if seen with a glass half full eyes, offers great opportunity for the more creative amongst men.

No matter how many times I review the research data, it continues to show the same conclusion.
1. 20% of working wives earn more than their husbands
2. 94% of choices for home furnishing are made by women
3. 92% of holiday destinations are decided by women
4. 89% of new bank account are at the suggestion of women
5. 88% of medical insurance are at the prompt of women
6. 65% of car buying decision are made by women, despite only 7 % of car sales person being women.

*data source – Australian research.

What is even more surprising, women buy more sports shoes and general sports wear than men. The sports-bra was first invented in 1977 with the first year sales of 25,000 units. But by year 1996, the sales were 42 million units. I wonder what the sales turnover is today. Almost every woman who jogs or walks or indulge in any sports will have at least a pair. And have you met any woman who has not expressed an intention of doing some form of exercise? The purchasing power in the hands of women, either for vanity, sanity, stupidity or for vitality – the largest economy on earth!

What can be disturbing to men are findings from further research which confirms that women are smarter than men, and women are better managers too.
Just look at Malaysian Universities, female students form more than half of the students enrolled. Deans list are dominantly females. Those who qualify on merit to pursue further studies at Doctorate level are mainly women. Imagine again all these women graduating and earning big bucks – more purchasing power in the future.

Women rules! And this is an opportunity ......
A man who understands the big differences between Men and Women and seize the opportunity to win a woman’s heart in spending her money on a product can really strike gold!

Men focus on separation - getting away from family, authority, whatever. Women focus on connection. Men focus on self, while women focus on others. Men focus on rights, and respect for others rights - women on responsibilities. Men want a transaction to take place - while women are more interested in creating a relationship. Men watch an olympic to see who the winners are - while women will want to know about the winners, how they got there and what their lives are like.

If I want to venture into business of my own – I will go into a business which focuses on women as my customers. I will love and serve them all!
If I can come up with another sports-bra like innovation……I will be a millionaire!
*Idea…idea….idea…..scratching my head*

I need big ideas! I need to understand women more!

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"iF people did not sometimes do silly things, nothing intelligent would ever get done"
- Ludwig Wittgenstein.

I am out searching for more silly things to do....

a special prayer from LiL and myself for this lady.

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32 Comments:

  • At 7:00:00 AM , Blogger Unknown said...

    Salam to abg Id and Kak LiL...thank you for having me in your prayer...I'm touched with your kindness...jazakallah

     
  • At 7:51:00 AM , Blogger ~ GAB ~ said...

    Are you ruling me out as a potential business partner here? wehehehe.

    All the ladies around me and in my life as a whole are the intelligent ones. I love women, to say the least.

     
  • At 8:43:00 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    i hope your venturing out to business in the ladies dept one day has nothing to do with safiya's refined features eh? he he he...

    man, i love yr witticism!

     
  • At 11:48:00 AM , Blogger Intan said...

    idham, once upon a time, men rule because they fight with brute force..nowadays, the successful ones fight with their brain...so where are we to put the men who still want to fight physically? Just my 2 sen thoughts.

     
  • At 2:21:00 PM , Blogger Nadia & Babe said...

    yeah girl power!!
    ajakla leed dia buss minded ape=)

     
  • At 10:11:00 AM , Blogger J.T. said...

    I tend to agree with Intan. We live in a different world of survival now. In our urban jungle, physical force is not so much needed as mental and emotional force. Thus women are taking over.
    However, if the world suddenly turns back survival of the fittest, I bet most women will throw in their towels.
    Is it any coincidence why there are hardly any women in infantry units in the military - to fight physically? Some countries still do not allow women in combat.
    Where do we put men who still want to fight physically? Military school, boxing and wrestling training, etc. They won't have to worry about fighting with women (not all the time anyway! hehe)

     
  • At 10:35:00 AM , Blogger Mama Rock said...

    id, i hope your escapade to understand women will not confuse you more ..LOL!

     
  • At 4:29:00 PM , Blogger k.d said...

    Abg.Arief...if you want to invent something, invent a car which wheels can be turned sideways so that women can slide sideways to do parallel parking! Hahaha

    Women and men either compliment each other or kill one another!

     
  • At 4:51:00 PM , Blogger KakNi said...

    Kenapa yang no. 1 tu yang paling rendah?

    In my case;
    1. betul
    2. 50-50, selalu kami bincang
    3. x betul, hubby yg selalu plan nak ke mana-mana
    4. no comment
    5. no comment
    6. x betul, hubby yg decided dia nak beli kereta apa, saya bagi sokongan saja

     
  • At 7:58:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    Raden...

    Alhamdullilah ...dah baca abt ur diagnosis...semoga sehat hendaknya...

    :)

    abg id

     
  • At 8:02:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    ~ GAB ~ ...
    i know u love women GaB...i could see it in ur eyes when we met...and u want to know something....u r also loved by women....u have what it takes!
    and it called - charm!

    :)

    IDHAM

     
  • At 8:04:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    KC of sleepless on the side ....

    Safiya ...she was gorgess....and a very good business woman to say the least. :)
    But but she was not sleepless by my side....that is for sure. :)

    KC...what is ur email? maybe if i can understand u...i can understand women in general...;)


    Idham

     
  • At 8:07:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    Intan ...
    Men who still fight with brute force are called 'samseng'. Men who fight with their brains but without their heart can be ruthless and cunning....

    i prefer to deal with men who use both their heart and their brain.

    women - i will always consider as my best ally.:)

    idham

     
  • At 8:09:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    Futsalbabe ...
    for now...i will leave her to enjoy her honeymoon habis2an dulu...hehehehe

    so, FB...u r not going ka to the wedding?

    kirim salam ye...:)

    idham

     
  • At 8:19:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    J.T. ...

    Fighting is in men's nature since the cave days. Some fight for survival while others fight to conquer. Some fight for a living, others fight for a killing.
    But I prefer men who fight it straight - face to face, man to man.
    Worst type of enemy to anyone are men or women who fight gorilla warfare...without you realizing you have enemies, and they are scheming tactics to demolish you. Those battles are the hardest.

    The last time I fought physically was more than twenty years ago with a Mat Salleh student in UK in defending the dignity of my Malaysian friend. You see this Matsalleh went to literally step on my friend's head. I just got up from my chair and threw three punches on his face. We ended up fighting....hehehe...both bruised and blue black....but later he understood the taboo and I won the loyalty of friendship for life.

    In corporate world, I fight intellectual battles everyday!

    And the only emotional battle i have to fight is within myself.

    idham

     
  • At 8:20:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    Mama Rock...
    hehehe....i will be trying to understand Keyan women....am on my way to Nairobi....:)
    will let u know the outcome.

    idham

     
  • At 8:22:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    k.d...
    hehehe....if someone can invent that type kan k.d....i will also buy one for my self...and one for LiL...Why no one has invented already kind of beats me...sounds so simple compared to some of the other inventions...and surely there are ready market for it...:)

    abg arief.

     
  • At 8:23:00 PM , Blogger Idham said...

    ahni...:)

    banyak nye yang tak betul...iye ka nie...that hubby yg plan for holidays...entah2 ahni dah kasik dia hints hints tiap2 malam tu kut...setiap kali nak meloncat...dok ckp ..jom bang ke langkawi..jom pi loncat kat sana...eheh..

    :)

    abg id

     
  • At 8:59:00 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    id..what do u expect? in number women rules... lelaki kan dah berkurangan.. n yeah.. do love us women hehehe.. we can bring u money hehehe

    my prayertoo for *that lady*

     
  • At 6:16:00 AM , Blogger lelakhalidah said...

    emm..hi..bloghopping from faiza.. i find this blog really good..i enjoyed reading ur writing.. see life from others perspective..i am not a good writer but anyway reading interesting blog bleh add up info..:)

     
  • At 11:00:00 PM , Blogger Faizah said...

    Hi Mr Id..sorry lama x masuk ..I am so busy lately..(shopping)..

    From my point of view..
    Women are..
    1)Powerhouses-we can tackle just about anything,work full time while being pregnant,etc..
    2)Creators-without women,the human race wouldn't exist..
    3)Your best friend
    4)Honest-they are honest with themselves and they are honest with u about anything..
    5)Self-sacrificing-always put their needs second..
    6)Smart
    7)fighters

    byk lagi ni..lain kali sambung..

     
  • At 3:05:00 AM , Blogger Mama Sarah said...

    i had problem to enter your blog recently. my pc kept on crashing 3-4 times each time i tried. used to be the same problem with Simah's blog once upon a time. luckily hari ni ok pula.

    re: the australian stats. hihi very funny. that's either samples from unmarried women who make their own decision or from 'queen control'!!!LOL...

     
  • At 3:06:00 AM , Blogger D said...

    hey, i came earlier and there was something else here - where did it go?? Is it the women's power that changed things? HaHa

     
  • At 3:52:00 AM , Blogger Idham said...

    simah....peace!

    wah...seronok nya dia dapat jumpa ibu tu lagik! hehehe

    idham

     
  • At 3:56:00 AM , Blogger Idham said...

    lelakhalidah....thanks for visiting...i too enjoy meeting new friends...and do come again.

    i would encourage u to write what come to ur mind...and for your info, i hv visited ur blog and enjoyed looking at ur family pictures and reading ur dedication in nurturing love in with ur lovely family.

    keep on writing is what i would say.

    idham

     
  • At 3:58:00 AM , Blogger Idham said...

    faizabelle....:) Just like u said...women are all those and banyak lagi....i fully agreed!

    If there is a man who appreciates the beauty, love and grace of women - then I want to be counted as that one man.

    :)

    abg id.

     
  • At 4:01:00 AM , Blogger Idham said...

    mamasarah....:) taktau la kenapa jadi mcm tu pulak blog nie yer...
    mungkin kena mandikan air bunga jugak kut hehehehe....tapi uztaz ckp, itu dah kira berunsur2 salah ajaran ugama tu...so, i will keep to nor mal shower jer la..

    QUEEN CONTROL ...ada jugak bagus nya. Tak yah byk fikir, just follow orders jer!

    idham

     
  • At 4:02:00 AM , Blogger Idham said...

    D...mcm biskut...kejap ada kejap tak der!

    actually, u r right - woman's power played a role....*pls note i use singular and not plural - all it take is ONE woman to make a change*

    :)

    idham

     
  • At 7:48:00 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Idham

    From my point of view, itu-lah dia betapa toleransinya sikap lelaki. Kan best tuh??

     
  • At 11:21:00 AM , Blogger Idham said...

    zlaa...

    itulah kelbihan kejadian Tuhan......ada yg kurang di lengkapkan...

    wanita itu pelengkap kehidupan lelaki dan juga sebaleknya....

    :)

    id

     
  • At 5:10:00 PM , Blogger NURAZZAH8 said...

    idham,
    pepatah ada mengatakan, "tangan yang menghayun buaian, mampu menggoncang dunia"

     
  • At 10:18:00 AM , Blogger Idham said...

    muazzah....

    :)

    sungguh mulia tangan tangan itu...

    idham

     

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